Hey folks – got a great question in my mailbag that applies to so many of us ……..
Q : Help ! My life is running me ! Give me pointers before I literally go crazy !! Mindy, New Zealand.
A : We’re all kinda frazzled in our own way so don’t feel that you are the exception to the norm. You might just need to tweak a few areas.
Here are 3 common reasons and solutions …. implement one a week for the next 3 weeks and you wont go crazy ….. you might even get really empowered.
Reason 1) You’re living in the ‘now’ instead of being one or two steps ahead.
Solution 1) Take at least one hour a week to plan ahead to ensure that you are ahead of the game. Think like a waiter, always with your eye on the next course.
Reason 2) You’re too tired to think straight.
Solution 2) Your body needs to rest and your mind needs to breathe. Stop thinking that you will ‘get’ some time to relax and realise that it is up to you to ‘take’ the time to relax. Choose a specific activity and plug it into your calendar. eg. Tuesday 8pm Turn off phone and relax with good book.
Reason 3) It’s all too much.
Solution 3) Here’s your salvation in one word : Delegation. It is not fun but is a life saver. Think outside of the box …. track your time and see what you can outsource. Want the back up without the responsibility ? Consider a virtual assistant.